Life is pretty much in the grays for the most part and if you insist always on black and white... you are going to be very unhappy
You gotta remember to breathe or you'll die.
Stop talking about love. Every asshole in the world says he loves somebody. It means nothing. It still doesn't mean anything. What you feel only matters to you. It's what you do to the people you say you love, that's what matters. It's the only thing that counts.